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Joan & Jack Stockdale |
"Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” - Matthew 28:19-20 (NIV)
Today is the first in an occasional series featuring conversations with those who have gone out to reach out and bring the Good News of Jesus Christ to the rest of the world. Many have left the comforts of home to do so, moving to a faraway country where they may not necessarily know the language or customs of the local population, or where there may either indirect or direct opposition to Christian missionaries being there.
Our first conversation is with Jack Stockdale, who along with his wife, Joan, and their children moved to
Poznan, Poland, to help start a church with
Great Commission Europe, a branch of
Great Commission Churches which today is affiliated with more than 125 churches in 20 countries.
Disciple Beacon: Tell the story of how you came to Christ.
Jack Stockdale: I received Christ on November 30, 1973, at the age of 19. My Methodist father married my Catholic mother at a time when non-Catholics were required to sign a statement agreeing that all the children would be raised in the Catholic faith. Thus I attended Catholic grade school and was “very Catholic” until the end of my high school years, when agnosticism began to seem to be rather attractive and convenient, especially as a means of easing one’s conscience when feelings of conviction and guilt arise because of sin.
Through my relationship with my Church of Christ high school sweetheart (who is now my wife and the mother of my ten children) and a friend at Ohio State, I came face-to-face with the reality of my Christ-less-ness and my sin. Late on a Friday night, after resisting my roommate’s offer to “get high,” I found an empty study lounge in my dorm and there opened my life to the Lord Jesus.
Disciple Beacon: What was your spiritual journey like afterward?
Stockdale: I soon met a group of Christians on campus, sort of a “Jesus People”-type fellowship with theological roots in the Plymouth Brethren and a Campus Crusade-like approach to evangelism.
I left school after winter quarter, 1975, to get married with the intention of resuming my education that fall. But I had lost interest in pursuing a degree in forestry and wanted nothing more than to learn the Word of God and how to share my faith effectively. I decided to stay out of school and to continue my involvement in the church. I attended a New Testament Survey class given by one of the pastors and became a small group leader, then eventually a deacon. In July, 1979, I was appointed the church’s seventh elder/pastor.
An experience which has proved to be a spiritual watershed event for me took place over spring break, 1975. Several weeks before my wedding date, I attended a retreat with others from the campus church. Among them I witnessed a level of yielded-ness and consecration to Christ’s Lordship to which I had not yet surrendered. At this retreat I had what I term a “
Romans 12:1 experience.” The Apostle Paul wrote, “Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual (some translations say, reasonable) service of worship.”
The only reasonable thing to do in light of what He has done for me is to surrender all (“present your bodies”) to Him. This is not mere emotion. This is quite cognitive and rational. It is also true worship.
Disciple Beacon: What led to you becoming a missionary? Was it a single event?
Stockdale: The Romans 12:1 experience was crucial as well as a conference that my wife and I attended in December, 1976, in Madison, Wis. We were young and childless at that time and trying to understand God’s path for our lives. We heard preaching on
Matthew 28:19-20 and then and there decided that we wanted to devote the rest of our lives to helping fulfill Christ’s Great Commission. We saw this as the practical outworking of the idea of Romans 12:1.
Years passed as I grew spiritually to the point of being entrusted to help lead God’s people. More years passed as I grew in maturity and experience in the important life-shaping areas of marriage, child-rearing, church-planting, and disciple-making. All the while, Joan and I kept in the back of our minds the prospect of serving the Lord in foreign countries. For us, it was not a question of if we would do this, but simply when the door would open. I always tried to be conscious of not “pushing my own agenda” or somehow allowing foreign missions to be a “badge of spirituality.” In my opinion, too many Christians view it as being only for the “super mature” or “super devoted” Christians.
Disciple Beacon: Why Poland? When did you move there? Where exactly in Poland and why that particular spot?
Stockdale: First, I’ll state what the reason for Poland was not. It was not because I had a particular passion or love for Poles. I was unfamiliar with Poland, its history, people, etc. I simply had an availability to God to go where He would send me, as the saying goes, “God is not concerned about our ability or our inability, but in our availability.”
My first short term mission trip was to Ukraine in 1996. It was a magnificent, transforming experience. I also took mission trips to Honduras in 1997 and to Italy in 2000. God used these experiences to show me that these places were not where He wanted me to move.
In 2000, I heard about a Polish pastor who was eager to facilitate American pastors planting churches in Poland. He lived in Poznan. Also, Herschel Martindale, who eventually become Director of Europe Missions for Great Commission once traveled around the world interviewing national believers and learning about the spiritual condition of various foreign countries. He once asked a Polish national who headed a ministry in Warsaw, “If you were going to plant a church in Poland, in what city would you do it?” His answer was, “Poznan.” Its large student population coupled with its prosperity and influence relative to the rest of the country made it strategic.
I learned about this opportunity from Herschel in 2000 and saw it as “a wide door for effective service” which the Lord was opening for me.
Disciple Beacon: What was the process like when you moved to Poland? How did your family take the decision (both your wife and children as well as those family members who stayed behind in the U.S.)?
Stockdale: That could be a very long answer, but I’ll say a few things. My wife was always on board with the idea of living sacrificially so as to bring the gospel to needy places in the world. Also, she has had a conviction that God primarily leads through the husband. (There’s no record that “Mrs. Noah” ever heard directly from God.)
When we first shared with our kids that we were praying seriously about the possibility of moving to Poland they replied with an enthusiastic, “Why can’t we leave tomorrow!?” Later such excitement was tempered with the realization of all that they would be leaving behind and there were certainly some emotional struggles. To a person, each one would say today that despite the trauma and pain involved with leaving the United States, it was definitely God’s will and the best thing for their lives.
It was painful for our married daughter at the time, but she was supportive. We had a son in the Marine Corps also. Each of them now have three children and they acknowledge the sadness they feel that their kids have not known their grandparents very well.
Disciple Beacon: What has your work been like since moving to Poland? Successes? Failures?
Stockdale: Without question we did not achieve the success we hoped, prayed, and planned for as we initially defined “success.” On the other hand, we have been wildly successful in terms of having led people to Christ who are zealous and determined to carry on after we leave, and of having built into the lives of men and women who are key influencers among the Christians and within Polish culture. After all, how often does something turn out just as you had envisioned it would be, especially when God is involved?
Disciple Beacon: What would your advice be to those who are considering going overseas themselves?
Stockdale: Be prepared for huge spiritual opposition. Satan hates the spread of the gospel, especially in areas which he as largely controlled in the past.
Knowledge is important, but even more so is character. Let God refine your character and build you. Be a submitted person in the contexts of family and local church.
The area of marriage and children was huge for us in terms of Poles (both believers and unbelievers) respecting us enough to give us a hearing. Don’t think you can allow these area of your life to be weak and that you will somehow hide that from people.
Learn to work in unity with other believers. Lone-ranger Christians are especially attractive targets for our enemy.
Wait on God’s timing. Don’t lag behind but also don’t push ahead. His timing is the best. Wait for Him to open the doors.
Learn to be effective where you are in evangelism and disciple-making. If you aren’t effective at home, what makes you think you can be effective with all the added stresses of trying to function (both personally and as a family) in a foreign culture with a different language and different ways of looking at things.
Disciple Beacon: What would your advice be to Christians in general in regards to missions?
Stockdale: Every believer is sent by God somewhere (“As the Father has sent Me, I also send you.” - John 20:21). In that sense we are all missionaries. You have some role to play. Learn what that role is and play it will all your heart. Pray for foreign missionaries. The opposition is very intense. Give to foreign missionaries. They sacrifice a lot materially to build the kingdom.
Be available to God to do what He wants you to do, say what He wants you to say, go where He wants you to go, whether it’s across the street or across the world. Isn’t that what Lordship is all about?