What are you following?

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"Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We believe and know that you are the Holy One of God.” - John 6:68-69 (NIV)

The world today can pull us in a million different directions. Our jobs can keep us occupied at all hours of the day and night, pulling us away from our families and other important things in our lives. A hobby can take up all of our time. Public opinion can also do the same with the masses, or "everybody else," believing one thing and making it so attractive or so compelling that we feel we must follow or suffer the consequences.

Little has changed since ancient times in that regard.

As documented in the book of 1 Samuel, the ancient Israelites demanded a king to rule over them. At the time, they had been ruled by judges who had learned the will of God for the nation and then led the people in that direction. This was unlike the nations surrounding them, each of whom had kings who ruled with varying degrees of strictness, all as absolute rulers.

Rather than be the separate people that God had called them to be, the Israelites clamored for a king of their own. The prophet Samuel, who had been overseeing the nation as judge, warned them, with words from the Lord, of what a king would do to them:

"This is what the king who will reign over you will do: He will take your sons and make them serve with his chariots and horses, and they will run in front of his chariots. Some he will assign to be commanders of thousands and commanders of fifties, and others to plow his ground and reap his harvest, and still others to make weapons of war and equipment for his chariots. He will take your daughters to be perfumers and cooks and bakers. He will take the best of your fields and vineyards and olive groves and give them to his attendants. He will take a tenth of your grain and of your vintage and give it to his officials and attendants. Your menservants and maidservants and the best of your cattle and donkeys he will take for his own use. He will take a tenth of your flocks, and you yourselves will become his slaves. When that day comes, you will cry out for relief from the king you have chosen, and the Lord will not answer you in that day. " - 1 Samuel 8:11-18 (NIV)

Despite this warning, the people ignored him, saying, "We want a king over us. Then we will be like all the other nations, with a king to lead us and to go out before us and fight our battles." (1 Samuel 8:19-20 (NIV)) So God gave them what they wanted, having Samuel anoint Saul, who was considered an "an impressive young man without equal among the Israelites" (1 Samuel 9:2), as king.

The arrangement worked for a while, with Saul scoring impressive victories early in his reign. However, it soon began to unravel. Following a victory, Saul offered up the burnt offering to God rather than waiting for Samuel and the priests as he had been instructed by God (see 1 Samuel 13:1-15), and he was soon replaced by David, who had risen to prominence after defeating Goliath (1 Samuel 17) and scoring other military victories.

However, with few exceptions, having a king rule over them "like all the other nations" did not work well for Israel. The Bible, in talking about future kings, often described them as having done "evil in the eyes of the Lord," causing the rest of the nation to sin as well. The nation of Israel was split into two kingdoms, Israel and Judah, and eventually both were conquered by foreign powers as the people fell further away from the will of God. Psalm 106 explained the situation:

"They did not destroy the peoples as the Lord had commanded them, but they mingled with the nations and adopted their customs. They worshiped their idols, which became a snare to them. They sacrificed their sons and their daughters to demons. They shed innocent blood, the blood of their sons and daughters, whom they sacrificed to the idols of Canaan, and the land was desecrated by their blood. They defiled themselves by what they did; by their deeds they prostituted themselves. Therefore the Lord was angry with his people and abhorred his inheritance. He handed them over to the nations, and their foes ruled over them. Their enemies oppressed them and subjected them to their power. Many times he delivered them, but they were bent on rebellion and they wasted away in their sin." - Psalm 106:32-43 (NIV)

But where do you go if the world's ways are not a good way to go? The Apostle Paul wrote on this several times in his letters to various churches:

"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is —his good, pleasing and perfect will." - Romans 12:2 (NIV)


"See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the basic principles of this world rather than on Christ." - Colossians 2:8 (NIV)

Jesus also provided the answers, offering eternal life. He is quoted in John as saying he is "bread of life," and that those who come to him and believe will never go hungry or never go thirsty. (see John 6:35). He was provided as the answer to sin and deceptive philosophies (see John 3:16-17). After a while, his apostles also saw this, even as people were deserting him, with the Apostle Peter saying Jesus has "the words of eternal life."

All it takes is to believe in that.

Today in Missions: Reaching out to Muslims

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"It has always been my ambition to preach the gospel where Christ was not known, so that I would not be building on someone else’s foundation." - Romans 15:20 (NIV)

In many parts of the world, at least by the world's standards, it is inadvisable to talk about Jesus Christ because of the possibly violent reaction it could get from those who are hearing it. However, the possibility of a bad reaction to the Good News has not stopped believers from going out to dangerous parts of the world and preaching the message of reconciliation to those who may not want to hear it.

Today we speak with "Josie," a young woman from Iowa who is working among the Arab Muslim population in the Detroit area. We have changed her name to protect her anonymity as she aspires to soon go to the Middle East, where speaking out as a Christian, and particularly as a Christian woman, can be dangerous work.

Disciple Beacon: Tell the story of how you came to Christ.

Josie: I grew up thinking that being a Christian meant conforming to the rules made by men who led our community and being a good person who loves God. As a young kid, I had this attraction to God and knew that I wanted to be pleasing to Him. I pursued my only way of knowing how to do this by being as good of a person as I could be. I wasn’t too sure about wanting to follow all of the rules though, and I lived in fear of God’s rejection. I thought He must know that I’m holding back from giving Him my life.

When I was 11, I heard that my sister (who was 3.5 years older than me) decided to follow Jesus. That night she came up to me and told me she was sorry for the way she had treated me and asked me to forgive her. I was so touched by her sincerity and saw that something was different with her. Her heart had been changed. I kept watching her as she helped open my eyes to what it meant to follow Jesus. I was confused that she didn’t worry about following the rules I thought were so important, but I was attracted to the way she treated me like a friend and spent time reading God’s Word. I began attending a Bible study that she was a part of and it was there that I began to realize that it wasn’t because of anything that I had done or could do that I would save me from this rejection I feared, but by God’s grace shown through Christ Jesus I would be accepted. It was in this time that I told Jesus, “I’m opening the door for you to come in.” I don’t even think I really understood what I meant, but I know it began a new chapter for our relationship.

Disciple Beacon: What was your spiritual journey like afterward?

Josie: Every day since then and every day now, God is continuously opening my eyes to His love that surpasses understanding. Truthfully, I continued to struggle in my heart with whether God really accepted me or not. Every time I encountered a different requirement for salvation, I felt the doubt come back. What got me through was clinging onto the promise that “we have confidence to enter the holy places by the blood of Jesus…[so] let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water. Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful.” (Hebrews 10:19,22-23).

It wasn’t until recently that Jesus gave me healing from the lies of legalism by allowing me to experience the same forgiveness that He gave to the woman caught in adultery as well as freedom from the accusations around me as I saw the Pharisees drop their stones and heard Him say to me, “Neither do I condemn you” (John 8:2-11). It’s in this freedom that I can follow Him and share the good news of the healing for all our wounds.

Disciple Beacon: What led to you becoming a missionary? Was it a single event?

Josie: Well, if this means sharing the good news of Jesus to those who don’t know it, then that happened at the same time of experiencing it for myself. I was all about letting my friends know that they could come to Jesus just as they were and there was no reason to wait to accept His salvation as I wanted them to know this same hope.

If it means becoming globally focused in sharing this good news, then this happened when I first heard that it was possible. In high school, I became a part of a community of believers that had opportunities to travel to those who had less of a chance to hear about the good news of Jesus. When hearing about them, my thought was, “Why wouldn’t I go?” On my first trip with them, I loved the purpose of having a mission to share the truth of Jesus to those who didn’t know it. I told God, “I’ll go anywhere you want me to, whether that means Africa or Iowa or wherever.” Through other trips that I took throughout high school, I had made it my goal to pursue ministry cross-culturally.

In college, I took a class called Perspectives on the World Christian Movement. I was challenged to think about those who not only didn’t know the truth, but also had on one there to tell it to them—the least reached. As I heard others express their willingness to go to the “hard places,” I told them, “I could never do that!” God gently reminded me what I had told Him back in high school and if I really meant “anywhere.” God did a work in my heart through that class and by the end I wanted to share Paul’s vision to “make it my ambition to preach the gospel, not where Christ has already been named, lest I build on someone else’s foundation” (Romans 15:20) and began claiming the promise “who have never been told of him will see, and those who have never heard will understand” (Romans 15:21). I knew that this would mean somewhere in the 10/40 window, the area of largest concentration of least reached people between the 10 degrees and 40 degrees latitude that covered Northern Africa, the Middle East, and Central/Southern Asia.

Disciple Beacon: What led to working with Muslims, particularly in Michigan? Being from Iowa, I wouldn't think of you having much exposure to that culture here.

Josie: In high school, one of my best friends was a foreign exchange student who was Muslim. Back then, I was all about telling her what I believed, that I didn’t do much of listening to what she believed. It wasn’t until the end of her time in Iowa that she told me she believed in the same stories of Adam, Noah, Moses, David, Jesus, and others. I was shocked and realized I had no idea what my friend believed. When I took the Perspectives class in college, they explained more about Islamic beliefs and my thoughts were, “This is what my friend believes?!” I had no idea that her religion believed that Jesus did miracles, is a Word from God, that the Bible is God’s Word, etc. It seemed like she couldn’t be that far from seeing Jesus as the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Shortly after this class I went to go visit her and shared with her the things I learned. I came back to Iowa realizing three things: 1) I loved her culture, 2) I still had much to learn about sharing truth with Muslim friends, and 3) I wanted to do this for the long haul.

Back in Iowa, I transferred to the University of Iowa in Iowa City where there was a large population of Muslim international students and got a degree in Linguistics with a certificate in Teaching English as a Second Language (which I thought was more international focused than my original major). It was a great place to begin living the way I wanted to live overseas, especially as I was constantly reminded that an airplane flight doesn’t change you. I lived in community with others who were like-minded and who encouraged one another to take the next step in going.

It was in this time that I got a phone call from a couple who I had met at a college conference who worked in Michigan among Muslim immigrants. They were just catching up on what I was up to, and so I let them know my change in majors and my desire to teach English overseas after college. Just so happens that they were looking for English teachers and explained how this could be a next step in training. After two trips visiting their ministry there, it seemed like this was the perfect opportunity to get more of an immersion experience in the culture I wanted to live while continuing to learn what it looks like to invite Muslims to join me in following Jesus.

Disciple Beacon: What was the process like when you did move to Michigan? What have you been doing for your outreach?

Josie: I joined the non-profit organization of those who I’d be working with here and so for three months, I visited with friends and family to share my vision for the community I was reaching out to and how they could be a part of it through prayer and support.

In Michigan, I began teaching English at the women’s education center that was started by a woman from the community. I saw this as part of being the hands and feet of Jesus as learning English is a huge need for them and Jesus was all about meeting physical needs as well as spiritual. As I lived among them, developing friendships with them, and was invited to homes and introduced to others, I’ve been able to share the teachings of Jesus. This looked different for different friends. Sometimes it was just sharing a story of Jesus that I was reminded of through conversation, or just for the sake of hearing a good story, or one that particularly was impacting my life at the time. For those who are more of the studious kind, I’ve been able to study the Bible and their book, The Qur’an, together with them.

Some of my best memories are the chances to pray with them as we humble ourselves together and depend on God. There’s also the crazy fun times that come with being friends that may include dance parties or playing games with their kids.

Disciple Beacon: How has it worked out as a woman working among Muslims?

Josie: In my conservative context, it probably looks different from other Muslim communities. Some of my friends don’t get outside of the house much and can get lonely when their husbands are at work and their kids are at school. A large part of what I do then is go to their homes to chat with them, eat with them, and just be with them. Also in my context, there’s segregation between men and women, even between relatives. A lot of the women have fear of men, so I’ve had to guard my heart from taking that fear on too.

Disciple Beacon: Have you had many successes (i.e. people praying to receive Christ)? Failures?

Josie: I try and guard myself from thinking in these terms as it put the focus on my doing, but only God can change hearts. I have to trust Him that He is at work as I obey what He has for me to do each day. Have I seen people confess Jesus as Lord? Not yet, but I continue to hope in His promise, “And I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw all people to myself” (John 12:32).

Disciple Beacon: What are the next steps? You mentioned working in the Middle East at some point?

Josie: By next year, I hope to be graduated from my TESOL masters program that I hope will aid in getting a job overseas in the Middle East. Right now, the next steps are to find others who will go with me or those who I can join as community, which is very important to me. I’m not quite sure what those details look like as it depends on what company I would go through. The hardest step that I’m not looking forward to is saying good-bye.

Disciple Beacon: What would your advice be to those considering similar outreaches to Muslims or other people groups themselves?

Josie: I’ll just repeat what I’ve heard as I thought it was pretty good: pray, initiate, and persevere. Nothing happens without prayer. Get out there to meet a new friend, love them, and speak about Jesus. Don’t stop doing this! It may seem like nothing is happening, but so many times I’ve heard that persistence testifies and that they need our patience as they wrestle with things in their heart.

Disciple Beacon: What would your advice be to Christians in general in regards to missions?

Josie: Don’t let the word “missions” exclude you from joining in God’s mission in seeing His Kingdom come to all peoples!

You don’t need to go to missionary school. It may look like moving to live in a community less reached, and it may also look like learning more about the world, praying for the nations, welcoming internationals, sending others to go, or mobilizing others to catch this vision. There are all kinds of resources out there for you. I think The Perspectives Six Ways course is a great start.

Are you ready?

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"Being asked by the Pharisees when the kingdom of God would come, he answered them, 'The kingdom of God is not coming in ways that can be observed, nor will they say, "Look, here it is!" or "There!" for behold, the kingdom of God is in the midst of you.'" - Luke 17:20-21 (ESV)

What would you do if you knew that Jesus was coming back today? Regardless of where you stood with God or what you believed, what if you knew for certain that at say, 3 o'clock today, you knew that Jesus would return as has been described in the book of Revelation (see Revelation 1:7)?

This past Sunday, Pastor Brooks Simpson of Grace Community Church in North Liberty, Iowa spoke on the Kingdom of God, based on Luke 17:20-37, covering how we will know for certain that it is indeed Jesus returning (Luke 17:22-25) and what we should be doing to be ready for when it does.

Leaning on Jesus

"'I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.'" - John 15:5 (NIV)

There has been many a time where Christians have been accused of using God as a "crutch," where they are unable to stand or do anything without God.

Somehow, that has been portrayed as a bad thing.

Throughout the Bible, it is proclaimed that we should rely on God, for he provides the strength that is necessary to live in a fallen world. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us,

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (NIV)

The prophet Isaiah said for his fellow Israelites to "trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock (Isaiah 26:4 (ESV))" even after they had been conquered and oppressed. In the beginning shortly after he created the world, God provided for his newly formed man and all of the animals (see Genesis 1:29-30). Later, as people were abandoning Jesus after a particular difficult teaching on his being the "bread of life" (see John 6:25-59), one of his apostles, Peter, told him,

"Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.  We believe and know that you are the Holy One of God." - John 6:68-69 (NIV)

In his comparison of himself and his people described in John 15, Jesus said he is the vine and we are the branches. A tree's branches cannot survive apart from the tree - anyone who has picked up dead branches following a storm can attest to this. We are the same way in that we cannot survive and do much of anything apart from God and by extension, Jesus Christ.

That includes being saved from our sins. In John 14:6, Jesus is quoted as saying,

"I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (NIV)

That is because Jesus was the final sacrifice for our sins (and remember every last one of us have sinned) when he went to the cross. And we need to accept that gift is repent of our sins (see Mark 1:15) and confess that Jesus is Lord (see Romans 10:9-10), then we will be saved.

Questions? Concerns? Do you want to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior today? Please feel free to contact me today and we can talk.

Hard work pays off

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"He who works his land will have abundant food, but he who chases fantasies lacks judgment." - Proverbs 12:11 (NIV)

Ok, let's be honest here. Who bought at least one MegaMillions lottery ticket a few weeks ago when the jackpot reached a record $640 million? While winning the lottery is a nice dream, the odds of actually doing are astronomical. According to various published news reports, the odds of winning the jackpot, which ultimately went to three winners in three states, was one in 176 million.

The Bible, on the other hand, teaches that hard work is what will ultimately provide for our needs Psalm 128:2 tells us,

"You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours." (NIV)

Proverbs 14:23 says,

"All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty." (NIV)

That is not to say that just by working hard, you will achieve great wealth and blessings from God, a teaching often referred to as prosperity theology. Across history and even today, hardworking people often have been abused and taken advantage of despite their efforts and their faith in God.

Does that mean they should have more faith in God? Of course not. The toil of working hard and not necessarily getting what you have worked for goes all the way back to Adam and Eve, who were cursed by their original sin in the Garden of Eden (see Genesis 3:17-19). With sin in the world today, good people do not always get what they want, as most of us learned as children.

At the same time, there are some who are prone to being lazy and not working, and the Bible has strong words for those who do not work.

"One who is slack in his work is brother to one who destroys." - Proverbs 18:9 (NIV)

The New Testament also had particularly strong words for those who were not working because they believed that Christ was coming very soon. In 2 Thessalonians 3, the Apostle Paul wrote that the followers of Christ, later to be called Christians, were to stay away from "every brother who is idle" (see 2 Thessalonians 3:6), particularly in light of so-called "preachers" who came through, gave some teaching and expected those who heard their message to take care of them. To ensure he was not counted among them, Paul worked as a tent maker, ensuring he was upright in the eyes of those who heard him teach about Jesus Christ. He had this warning for those "lazy Christians:"

"For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: 'If a man will not work, he shall not eat.'"- 2 Thessalonians 3:10 (NIV)

God does view work favorably, as taught in the Bible. We are told to work as if we are working for the greatest boss in the world, God himself, because in the grand scheme of things, we already are.

"Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain." - 1 Corinthians 15:58 (NIV)

"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters." - Colossians 3:20 (NIV)

Nothing but the best

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"'Everyone brings out the choice wine first and then the cheaper wine after the guests have had too much to drink; but you have saved the best till now.'" - John 2:10 (NIV)

Back in Jesus' day, wedding banquets were the norm for those getting married, especially if either the husband or wife came from a rich family. While the wedded (most likely from an arrangement set by their parents) were honored initially during the ceremony and early in the banquet, it soon became a drunken party in which the guests drank wine to their hearts' content. And as anyone who has either drunk too much or has seen it at parties, typically at some point the quality of the drink, whether it is beer, wine or some other alcoholic beverage, was not as much a concern.

Oftentimes, the story told in John 2:1-11 is analyzed as among Jesus' first miracles, when he turned water into wine. It did provide a glimpse into who he is, and a glimpse into how he often would get the attention of those around him (through miracles).

This story also can be viewed as the difference between this world and heaven. Yes, there are some good things in this world, whether it be family, works of art, marvel engineering feats, etc. These can and should be celebrated.

However, heaven, as described in the Bible, and what we as followers of Christ get to look forward to, is so much more.

"I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, 'Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.'" - Revelation 21:2-4 (NIV)

Our physical bodies, some in better shape than others, also will be the best they can be.

"But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body." - Philippians 3:20-21 (NIV)

To get to God's best, though, we have to come to faith in his Son, Jesus Christ.

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." - John 3:16 (NIV)

"Jesus answered, 'I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" - John 14:6 (NIV)

To those who have trusted in Jesus as their Lord and Savior, this is what they get to look forward to. For those who have yet to take that step, all you have to do is ask (Romans 10:9-10). If you would like to talk more about that or ask questions, please feel free to contact us today. It will be the biggest decision you will ever make.

Today in Missions: Jack Stockdale

Joan & Jack Stockdale

"Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” - Matthew 28:19-20 (NIV)

Today is the first in an occasional series featuring conversations with those who have gone out to reach out and bring the Good News of Jesus Christ to the rest of the world. Many have left the comforts of home to do so, moving to a faraway country where they may not necessarily know the language or customs of the local population, or where there may either indirect or direct opposition to Christian missionaries being there.

Our first conversation is with Jack Stockdale, who along with his wife, Joan, and their children moved to Poznan, Poland, to help start a church with Great Commission Europe, a branch of Great Commission Churches which today is affiliated with more than 125 churches in 20 countries.

Disciple Beacon: Tell the story of how you came to Christ.

Jack Stockdale: I received Christ on November 30, 1973, at the age of 19. My Methodist father married my Catholic mother at a time when non-Catholics were required to sign a statement agreeing that all the children would be raised in the Catholic faith. Thus I attended Catholic grade school and was “very Catholic” until the end of my high school years, when agnosticism began to seem to be rather attractive and convenient, especially as a means of easing one’s conscience when feelings of conviction and guilt arise because of sin.

Through my relationship with my Church of Christ high school sweetheart (who is now my wife and the mother of my ten children) and a friend at Ohio State, I came face-to-face with the reality of my Christ-less-ness and my sin. Late on a Friday night, after resisting my roommate’s offer to “get high,” I found an empty study lounge in my dorm and there opened my life to the Lord Jesus.

Disciple Beacon: What was your spiritual journey like afterward?

Stockdale: I soon met a group of Christians on campus, sort of a “Jesus People”-type fellowship with theological roots in the Plymouth Brethren and a Campus Crusade-like approach to evangelism.

I left school after winter quarter, 1975, to get married with the intention of resuming my education that fall. But I had lost interest in pursuing a degree in forestry and wanted nothing more than to learn the Word of God and how to share my faith effectively. I decided to stay out of school and to continue my involvement in the church. I attended a New Testament Survey class given by one of the pastors and became a small group leader, then eventually a deacon. In July, 1979, I was appointed the church’s seventh elder/pastor.

An experience which has proved to be a spiritual watershed event for me took place over spring break, 1975. Several weeks before my wedding date, I attended a retreat with others from the campus church. Among them I witnessed a level of yielded-ness and consecration to Christ’s Lordship to which I had not yet surrendered. At this retreat I had what I term a “Romans 12:1 experience.” The Apostle Paul wrote, “Therefore I urge you, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual (some translations say, reasonable) service of worship.”

The only reasonable thing to do in light of what He has done for me is to surrender all (“present your bodies”) to Him. This is not mere emotion. This is quite cognitive and rational. It is also true worship.

Disciple Beacon: What led to you becoming a missionary? Was it a single event?

Stockdale: The Romans 12:1 experience was crucial as well as a conference that my wife and I attended in December, 1976, in Madison, Wis. We were young and childless at that time and trying to understand God’s path for our lives. We heard preaching on Matthew 28:19-20 and then and there decided that we wanted to devote the rest of our lives to helping fulfill Christ’s Great Commission. We saw this as the practical outworking of the idea of Romans 12:1.

Years passed as I grew spiritually to the point of being entrusted to help lead God’s people. More years passed as I grew in maturity and experience in the important life-shaping areas of marriage, child-rearing, church-planting, and disciple-making. All the while, Joan and I kept in the back of our minds the prospect of serving the Lord in foreign countries. For us, it was not a question of if we would do this, but simply when the door would open. I always tried to be conscious of not “pushing my own agenda” or somehow allowing foreign missions to be a “badge of spirituality.” In my opinion, too many Christians view it as being only for the “super mature” or “super devoted” Christians.

Disciple Beacon: Why Poland? When did you move there? Where exactly in Poland and why that particular spot?

Stockdale: First, I’ll state what the reason for Poland was not. It was not because I had a particular passion or love for Poles. I was unfamiliar with Poland, its history, people, etc. I simply had an availability to God to go where He would send me, as the saying goes, “God is not concerned about our ability or our inability, but in our availability.”

My first short term mission trip was to Ukraine in 1996. It was a magnificent, transforming experience. I also took mission trips to Honduras in 1997 and to Italy in 2000. God used these experiences to show me that these places were not where He wanted me to move.

In 2000, I heard about a Polish pastor who was eager to facilitate American pastors planting churches in Poland. He lived in Poznan. Also, Herschel Martindale, who eventually become Director of Europe Missions for Great Commission once traveled around the world interviewing national believers and learning about the spiritual condition of various foreign countries. He once asked a Polish national who headed a ministry in Warsaw, “If you were going to plant a church in Poland, in what city would you do it?” His answer was, “Poznan.” Its large student population coupled with its prosperity and influence relative to the rest of the country made it strategic.

I learned about this opportunity from Herschel in 2000 and saw it as “a wide door for effective service” which the Lord was opening for me.

Disciple Beacon: What was the process like when you moved to Poland? How did your family take the decision (both your wife and children as well as those family members who stayed behind in the U.S.)?

Stockdale: That could be a very long answer, but I’ll say a few things. My wife was always on board with the idea of living sacrificially so as to bring the gospel to needy places in the world. Also, she has had a conviction that God primarily leads through the husband. (There’s no record that “Mrs. Noah” ever heard directly from God.)

When we first shared with our kids that we were praying seriously about the possibility of moving to Poland they replied with an enthusiastic, “Why can’t we leave tomorrow!?” Later such excitement was tempered with the realization of all that they would be leaving behind and there were certainly some emotional struggles. To a person, each one would say today that despite the trauma and pain involved with leaving the United States, it was definitely God’s will and the best thing for their lives.

It was painful for our married daughter at the time, but she was supportive. We had a son in the Marine Corps also. Each of them now have three children and they acknowledge the sadness they feel that their kids have not known their grandparents very well.

Disciple Beacon: What has your work been like since moving to Poland? Successes? Failures?

Stockdale: Without question we did not achieve the success we hoped, prayed, and planned for as we initially defined “success.” On the other hand, we have been wildly successful in terms of having led people to Christ who are zealous and determined to carry on after we leave, and of having built into the lives of men and women who are key influencers among the Christians and within Polish culture. After all, how often does something turn out just as you had envisioned it would be, especially when God is involved?

Disciple Beacon: What would your advice be to those who are considering going overseas themselves?

Stockdale: Be prepared for huge spiritual opposition. Satan hates the spread of the gospel, especially in areas which he as largely controlled in the past.

Knowledge is important, but even more so is character. Let God refine your character and build you. Be a submitted person in the contexts of family and local church.

The area of marriage and children was huge for us in terms of Poles (both believers and unbelievers) respecting us enough to give us a hearing. Don’t think you can allow these area of your life to be weak and that you will somehow hide that from people.

Learn to work in unity with other believers. Lone-ranger Christians are especially attractive targets for our enemy.

Wait on God’s timing. Don’t lag behind but also don’t push ahead. His timing is the best. Wait for Him to open the doors.

Learn to be effective where you are in evangelism and disciple-making. If you aren’t effective at home, what makes you think you can be effective with all the added stresses of trying to function (both personally and as a family) in a foreign culture with a different language and different ways of looking at things.

Disciple Beacon: What would your advice be to Christians in general in regards to missions?

Stockdale: Every believer is sent by God somewhere (“As the Father has sent Me, I also send you.” - John 20:21). In that sense we are all missionaries. You have some role to play. Learn what that role is and play it will all your heart. Pray for foreign missionaries. The opposition is very intense. Give to foreign missionaries. They sacrifice a lot materially to build the kingdom.

Be available to God to do what He wants you to do, say what He wants you to say, go where He wants you to go, whether it’s across the street or across the world. Isn’t that what Lordship is all about?

Dealing with tragedy in its many forms

Source: Bartlesville (Okla.)
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"Jesus said to his disciples: 'Things that cause people to sin are bound to come, but woe to that person through whom they come. It would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around his neck than for him to cause one of these little ones to sin.'" - Luke 17:1-2 (NIV)

During the last week, we heard the news of the passing of Tom White, the executive director of Voice of the Martyrs, a Bartlesville, Okla.-based group that serves to help and raise awareness of the persecuted church. White was 64 years old.

What's particularly troubling about the death of the man who had led VOM for the last 20 years are the circumstances surrounding it. According to news reports, Bartlesville police had begun an investigation into allegations that White, who led VOM following his own release from a Cuban prison for distributing the Bible and other Christian literature there, had molested a young girl. White was reported missing Tuesday night and found Wednesday morning in a warehouse at VOM's headquarters.  A statement released by VOM on Friday stated that "rather than face those allegations, and all of the resulting fallout for his family and this ministry and himself, Tom appears to have chosen to take his own life."

This is tragic, to say the least. The biting comments and slander from people came fast and furious on the story on the website of KOTV-TV6 in Tulsa, which reported the story, slamming him for being a pedophile. They would be correct, assuming the charges are true. We'll never really know now because of White's death.

But how to respond to such a tragedy?

Christianity Today had a great editorial on this they released on their website late Friday night. Citing other cases where Christian leaders were accused of these horrible crimes (some later admitting to them), it said the Christian church should first and foremost take measures to protect the innocent among them. It cited background checks for youth workers, something many Catholic churches have done in light of molestation scandals involving priests. It also said there was a need for parents to take the steps necessary to protect their children, helping them identify what is inappropriate behavior.

Also, and this is a more unpopular move, Christianity Today's editorial suggested Christians need to extend the gospel of Christ to child sex abusers. While that does not mean allowing convicted child sex abusers to work in youth ministry or to be fully integrated in church life, it does mean working to restore them to a place where they can experience the forgiveness of Jesus Christ.

Certainly, convicted child sex abusers need to be punished with jail time, and to receive the therapy and counseling they need to make a full recovery and to fully repent. But, much like the murderer, the thief, and the rest of us, God's grace needs to be made new and for their victims to be made new by God's power and divine grace, the editorial said.

"'Christ died for the murderer and the thief—did he not also die for the child molester?' asks William Struthers, a neuroscientist at Wheaton (Ill.) College in Christianity Today's editorial. 'Or am I going to create categories of people who are no longer able to be saved by the blood of Christ?'"

Remembering Chuck Colson (1931-2012)

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!" - 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV)

Saturday was marked by the passing of another influential Christian leader and a true example of the life-changing grace of Jesus Christ, Chuck Colson.

Colson, who was 80 after he died three weeks after suffering a brain hemorrhage, was notable as the "hatchet man" for former President Nixon during the Watergate scandal during the early 1970s. In fact, CNN.com's story on him led with his being notable for that role (with all of the hate from readers following in the comments).

However, what is truly remarkable about the life of Chuck Colson is what he did after he served seven months in prison for his role in Watergate, as he described in his testimony that he presented at Columbia University in 2008. He became an advocate for prison reform and a leader in the evangelical movement in the United States during the last 35 years of his life. Christianity Today quoted Jonathan Aitken, who wrote a noted biography of Colson in 2005, as saying Colson was "America's best-known Christian leader after Billy Graham."

Colson is a great example of the life-changing power of Jesus Christ in a person's life. He was a man who admitted to not caring about faith, only about power, during the first half of his life and wound up paying a dear price for it by going to prison. However, through Christ, he changed his ways, and for the rest of his life, worked hard to change things for the better, whether it was helping prisoners through his organization, Prison Fellowship, encouraging Christians to become better volunteers in their communities, working to bridge the gap between evangelicals and Catholics, and advising former President George W. Bush on issues ranging from the war in Sudan to AIDS in Africa to human rights.

In short, that is the power of Christ, and like it did for the noted persecutor Apostle Paul in the Bible (see Acts 9:1-19) and Colson, it can change your life as well.